Farewell to a Dear, Furry Friend

I want my blog to be about things that are fun and related to vintage…However, life isn't always fun and sometimes one needs to share feelings of grief and loss. I'm feeling particularly sad this week, so here goes.

This year Lucky, a big, sweet, beautiful Golden Retriever turned 15 years old…that's 120 years old in dog years (if dog years = eight years to every human year). But he was already old when I met him. For seven years  I would walk by his house on my way home from work, and if he were laying on the front porch, I would walk up and put my hand out for him to sniff and then scratch his head and get a lick or two from him on my hand. Occasionally, he would get up, lick my hand and then offer me his big, furry paw which I would always accept. Whatever crappy day I'd had at work, or whatever stress I was still carrying around from the day, would melt even before I got the lick, when I would see his tail start wagging.  If he was too tired to lift his head and body off of the porch to greet me, he would still wag his tail and it would pat up and down on the cement behind him while I stroked and scratched his head.  

Every day when I walked by his house I'd check to see if he were laying in his usual spot, even though it had been a while since I last saw him. It was a habit.  I needed my Lucky the dog fix.  On Wednesday of last week I passed by his house and glanced over to the area that I always check. Again, no big furry dog. However, I couldn't breathe for a second, and my eyes teared up when I saw a bouquet of flowers and a familiar red dog collar with a  bone shaped name tag encircling the bottom of the vase. A piece of paper was taped to the vase: 

My neighborhood dog buddy had passed away that very day. It was such a sad moment seeing that, but I LOVE that the neighbors left this loving tribute to Lucky on their front porch.  I am so grateful to them, because I got to say good-bye and feel my own grief and loss.  I know other neighbors loved Lucky too, and so they also got to say their good-byes.  Later on I went and got a bouquet of flowers and a sympathy card and hand delivered them to my canine friend's human parents.   I thanked them for sharing Lucky with all of us neighbors and told them how he just made my day happy whenever I got to see him and pet him. I told them I was very sorry for their loss and we all cried together for a moment or two. It was all extremely sad, but so healing at the same time.  

It's the lonely, empty red dog collar that breaks my heart in the photos I've posted here. A poignant reminder of who is missing. Even writing this right now, I'm all choked up after looking at them.  He wasn't even my dog, for goodness sake.  But his licks, paw/handshakes and tail wags left a mark on my heart that won't soon be forgotten. 

I'm not sad for Lucky.  He had an awesome life, and now he's chasing balls, cats and squirrels in doggy heaven with none of the pain of old age.  I'm sad for his family. I'm sad for the other neighbors who also loved Lucky and I don't even know them. I'm sad for me, because I lost such a sweet friend. He never complained. He just gave out love as needed. I got to give love to him as well as take love from him, so I guess it was a two-way street.  But still.

He was loved by his family and all the neighbors.  In fact,  the bouquets of flowers increased over the next few days.  The day after I visited his parents, there were two bouquets along with a lovely black and white photo featuring him laying on that very porch.  His porch.  I was happy to see that four days later there were four bouquets of flowers there.  

It's been one week, and my heart still hurts when I walk by and see that empty porch. I know that the sadness will lift as time passes. I almost don't want it to because I don't want to forget my awesome furry neighbor. Maybe I will remember him, but forget how sad I am now. 

I haven't lost a pet in many years, but I dread the day when one of my cats dies. My husband told a friend about Lucky's passing and how this sadness is why we hesitate to get a dog. His friend replied, "You have to remember all the wonderful times spent with your pet and all the joy they brought into your life and see that as greater than the pain felt after losing them".  I think that is beautiful, and that's what I plan to do when the time comes. 

Rest in peace Lucky.  Thank you so much for all the love. 

Three Gals, One Amazing, Vintage Disney Artist and The Cliff House = A Very Fun Day!

Disneyland is one of my modern, yet vintage obsessions. So of course I also love The Walt Disney Family Museum. It's located in San Francisco in The Presidio, and on a clear, sunny day the views are fantastic. The museum is loaded with great Disney pieces from displays of souvenir collectibles, Disney movie memorabilia and artifacts to many of Walt's personal belongings. The museum takes you through the history of his life, the stories behind the creation of Disney movies, through the creation of Disneyland and ends with Walt's passing. You can access their website here. One of the many great things about the museum is that they always feature an additional special exhibit or two, and they are GOOD.  Right now it's MAGIC, COLOR, FLAIR: the world of Mary Blair. It's running until September, so you still have time to get out there and see it.

I've wanted to see this exhibit there since I saw the billboards announcing that it was coming weeks ago and learned who Mary Blair was. My friends Penny and Loraine were on board to go see it with me, so off we went a couple of weeks ago.

Who was Mary Blair?  

Mary Blair was an artist who became one of Walt Disney's most ingenious and significant designers and art directors.  When you see her work, you get how she had such an influence on many other artists during her time.  Working for Disney, she learned how to stretch herself in her abilities and to progressively do bigger and more challenging projects. Even if you don't know her by name, you know her work.  She did the concept art for such classics as Peter Pan, Cinderella and Alice in Wonderland (to name a few). She is most famous for her design of the Its a Small World ride!

My favorite Disney movie!  Concept art of Alice and the White Rabbit.

The Exhibit

As any other biographical museum tour does, this exhibit starts at the beginning of her artistic journey by showing drawings and paintings from her years in school, and then moves through her beginning, middle and end with Disney.  After she left Disney to move on to other things, she came back to work on special projects, such as the It's a Small World ride at Disneyland and Disney World. 

More concept art for the Alice in Wonderland movie.  I would love a copy of this to hang in my home.

Peter Pan concept art.

I LOVE this.  Look at how amazing the shapes, vivid colors and details are.

So true! 

At first glance, Mary Blair seems like an art goddess that just waved a magic wand, and amazing pieces appeared. Her creative sense is so fun and magical that it's almost as if she was a creation of Walt Disney himself. However, upon entering the exhibit we learn that she went to school, which helps make her more of a mortal like the rest of us (at least in my mind). She was a graduate of San Jose State College. Then she attended the Chouinard Art Institute in Los Angeles. Still, this exhibit shows that she had a special gift. It is obvious that art was her passion, and she worked very hard at it. I found that so inspiring.

Little things here and there in the exhibit make Mary more lovable and relatable. For example, the audio clip of an interview with her now elderly nieces about visits with their fun Aunt Mary, her hard hat covered in fake flowers (photographed below), and the quote of hers posted on one of the walls at the exhibit that reads, "I had three jobs. Raising children, keeping house, and doing my art work." You can't get much more human than that.  

View from the second level.  Hi Loraine and Penny!

Mary's hard hat! I adore that.

It's a Small World penguin prototype. So cute!

There was even art hanging from the ceiling.

A colorful feast for the eyes!  I just loved the art hanging from the ceiling. This exhibit sprinkles happiness all over you, right? 

This exhibit is extremely well done. Mary Blair's artwork is respectfully hung in a fun, colorful environment befitting her brilliant creations.  It was a very happy exhibit, full of bright paintings, cartoon-like sculptures, beautiful photographs and even a video that brought Mrs. Blair to life.  When I saw her preliminary paintings for such films as Peter Pan and Alice in Wonderland (my favorite Disney movie), I was touched, because they reminded me of how much fun I had seeing those movies and going to Disneyland in my childhood. Vivid colors and fun, silly characters, what's not to love? 

Sorry, Walt Disney Family Museum, but I could not do the audio tour. Although I did try.  The narrator had such a slow, soothing voice, and it contrasted so much with the fun, bright environment that it wasn't holding my attention. I just didn't have the patience to slow down and listen to the words droning on and on through my headset. It was way too distracting, so I turned it off.

My tips for going to the Walt Disney Family Museum:

- Make sure to schedule plenty of time. Especially if you want to do the special exhibit in addition to the main museum. 

-The museum is for adults or older children...maybe teens who love Disneyland.  There is not enough to keep small children busy here. They would get bored. 

- Take a break between exhibits. See the special one first, take a break, eat, drink or whatever; and THEN go see the main Museum. 

- There is a great gift shop there where you can stock up on unique gifts for those Disney lovers in your life...even if that is YOU!

-They are closed on Tuesdays. I recommend going during the week.  I haven't been there on a weekend, but I imagine it's busy. I don't like crowds, so I avoid things like this on weekends. But do check their website for closures, because you never know when there will be a special event.

- Check out their event schedule. Animate Your Night is an event they have every month or so, where you can attend the museum in the evening and there's a special theme, booze for sale and gourmet food trucks with yummy food to buy. 

FYI: The next exhibit is Leading Ladies and Femme Fatales: The Art of Marc Davis. I can't wait to see that one!

NEXT: TO THE CLIFF HOUSE FOR SOME POST-DISNEY MUSEUM REFRESHMENTS.

After the Disney Family Museum, we decided that it would be fun to cap off the day by going to the Cliff House for snacks and drinks.  That place never disappoints!  It was very foggy, but I think was still a beautiful day, just in a different way. 

This is the fourth, and hopefully final, rebuild of the Cliff House. I think it's very tastefully done.  I love the addition of artifacts from the Sutro Baths and Playland at the Beach used as decor inside.

From Playland at the Beach. He welcomes you as you walk in the
doors to the Cliff House.

Wall art from the Sutro Baths.

Modeling an actual bathing suit used at Sutro Baths!

The Cliff House was an excellent way to cap off a very fun day. Click here for their website.